The Gieselmanns

Frazer and Dana Gieselmann are the parents of three beautiful daughters, Elle, Milla and Ann Carlyle. Sadly, they also know the unspeakable sadness of losing not one, but two of their children. In November 2016, Milla died from Batten disease, an inherited neurodegenerative disorder for which there is no cure. Milla's House was founded in 2017 in memory of their little girl.

The Gieselmanns youngest daughter, Elle, also tested positive for Batten disease at the age of 5, losing her battle with the disease in 2019. Their oldest daughter, Ann Carlyle, tested negative and is healthy. The Gieselmanns have relied heavily on the Grief Center over the years. Frazer says the Center continues to be essential to their family's journey through a grief that he describes as “complicated and messy.” He emphasized that the Center had not only been essential to his family, but to his extended family and close friends as well.

“The Memphis community has benefitted greatly from the Center for Good Grief, and it was our great pleasure to have the opportunity to support the opening of the Midtown location, while also honoring our daughter Milla,” says Dana. “Her short life touched so many. Our hope is that Milla's House will provide the help that some in our community need to deal with the reality of living in a broken world.”

In 2017, the first annual Miles 4 Milla’s House was held. It is a 40-mile bike ride as well as a family-fun ride and post-ride party that honors and celebrates not only Milla’s and Elle’s memory, but the amazing work done by the Center for Good Grief and the wonderful Gieselmann family. Every year, Miles 4 Milla raises thousands of dollars that go directly to the Baptist Center for Good Grief – Milla’s House. For more information on this annual event and the Gieselmann family’s story, please visit miles4milla.org or thegieselmann5.blogspot.com.

Miles 4 Milla

A 40-Mile Bike ride to raise funds and awareness for Baptist Centers for Good Grief, Milla’s House. The COVID-19 pandemic has made the work being done at Milla’s House that much more important, as thousands in our community try to cope with loss of a loved one and the increase in traumatic losses due to murder and suicide. The need is great, the waiting lists are long, and with additional funds, the services will continue to be provided to our community and move us towards healing.

The 7th annual Miles 4 Milla event, the signature bike ride benefiting Milla’s House, took place on May 20, 2023. With the dedicated efforts of Frazer and Dana Gieselmann, this event raised over $177,000 for Milla's House, providing vital support to grieving families. The generous contributions received will enable Milla's House to continue providing essential counseling services and care to those navigating the difficult journey of grief. We express our heartfelt gratitude to all the individuals and organizations who donated their time, resources, and enthusiasm to support this worthy cause.

Click here to learn more about the Gieselmann family and the grief center named in Milla’s memory.